Preface: This text is a bit older. Edited and slightly shortened do I get it now available here.
A friendship can be no friendship when one of the parties always have the feeling that he is only being exploited. A friendship can be built on such a "Nutzgedanken" not easy - or rather, can already. But one must then by something else such as "friendship" talk (in the strict sense).
If one in a friendship always come up short if one only "used" or "used", to the other's goals can either meet ever reach or easy, or it is not a friendship - then the exploit. If
are foregone times any more, because what comes in between, which seems more important, it's not respectful. Then it's just more shit - take advantage You can also leave from his enemies. Friends were there to other things.
If one feels bad leaving, ripped and lonely, though you would have friends - then the no friendship.
If you always use only - always is "good enough" when nobody else is there - then is no friendship .
If you will not understand - if you are only there to listen even to the other - then the is no friendship more .
I do not mean that you give in a friendship over and take MUST! I'm saying is that if only one "gives" this at some point only is exhausted and feels weak. Because he is always himself and never will be given. That may now act primarily something selfish. On closer inspection you can see here, however, the "reality" -> almost no way out!
I'm sick of it, only for others to be there and used to be. These are not friends - these are actually the worst enemies, as there are people that you (especially) and the emotional ranlaesst to know everything about you. These "friends" know how to exploit you.
And I am sure that many of these "friends" are eager to take advantage of you until you either become useless or used up completely and they know nothing more to do with you. Just as long as they stick to you.
self are added to again and again because it persuades itself that it is not so, as it always presents himself or persuades - but if you will only ever dealt with "bad" and if you look long been "exploited" feels, then that is a clear sign that there is no friendship easy.
Get rid of it! Look at it exactly! What is it? Friendship? Exploit?
handle ! It can cost as much strength, energy and people have confidence, if one clings to the wrong things for too long and too long watching, as will be tortured more and more beautiful and reimbursement will slow.
shit on false friends ! Of this you can also usually have a lot! You have to find you not - coming from itself over and over again. All by itself - if they realize that they can have something from you.
Well - as you can now find real friends at all? Is it worth looking for, then? In the Jungle of people to look up at some point to see possibly the bud of a friendship? I think it time that something like real friends are rare. It's all or the people but they are all geared only to the extent that they satisfy their own desires and achieve their own goals. If necessary, they are to achieve these goals build "false friends" or just "friends" - but when it comes to pursuing their own goals and realize all Egocentric people and go, if necessary, to "dead bodies".
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